Sunday, April 28, 2013

Un-pause

Previously I had mentioned that we were going to start trying for baby #2.  Well... that was derailed and then put on pause by the manfolk's dying and being revived and then being stuck in a hospital.  

Now that he has had three months worth of follow-ups and things seem to be back on track (if he doesn't get selfish and start back to his old ways) we are going to start again. 

We had a lot more sex before this whole thing went down so we will see how it goes.  He has recently had to come to grips with the fact that he is human and not 18 anymore and it has taken a toll on his libido. 

His doc was impressed when he went in after he got out of the hospital and told him that the day before he went in we had had sex three times.  Not bad for a 40 year old married dude. 

But it hasn't been that way since and I miss it. 

A man wanting a woman makes the woman feel sexy. When that goes away (especially when we used to have it all of the time) it is damaging to the ego. 

But what do you do?  Pressure the guy?  Not so much. 

So I wait patiently-ish and hope it comes back. 


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